Sometimes, as a relationship grows older partners grow apart and their sexual relationship become more and more infrequent.
In most cases, it is the man who is left wanting — starved because he has not earned it.
Believe it or not, it is your fault.
The right to more sex must be earned, just like the right to any other thing in life.
For men who are willing do what it takes to get back into the bedroom game, here are some things you should do:
- Always give what you get. One thing you must always have on your mind is that sex is a give and take thing. Some men will just lie down and let the woman do all the giving,especially when it comes to oral sex. You must earn by reciprocating.
- More foreplay. Foreplay is very important for women because it takes more time for them to get to climax than the
- average man. So mere penile sex every time makes the prospect of sex boring for them. Spice up with intense foreplay and she'll look forwards to it.
- It's about her. Ask her what she wants and give it to her. Communicating during sex is very important. When she knows that you are not selfish, she will be more inclined to let you in.
- Get romantic at all times. Women like to be hugged and kissed randomly, not just when you are having sex. Some men are in the habit of switching off emotionally until they want sex. No, you should always be in tune with her sexual signals. A peck now and then shows you need, miss and want her.
- Speak sweet, during and after sex. Don't be one of the guys that turn away and leave once they ejaculate. Hold her tight when you have sex and speak to her There is nothing more romantic than drawing her close staying so for a while after sex. It shows you want her, not just the sex.
- Be spontaneous, try something new. Anything done too many times, the same way, becomes boring. If you want to keep her interested, you must be willing to try new things — sex positions, new locations (bedroom, kitchen, hotel, pool) and new experiences. Discuss with her before trying anything out, though.
In addition to the above, try to respect your woman's 'NO' signs. Rushing or forcing her is not far from rape, so go slow.
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